From the outside, a sugar daddy relationship seems scandalous because, often, the woman is seen to be using the man for his money OR the man seems to be using the woman for her sexuality. In that context… it’s rarely seen as both. One person is using the other person, and the relationship gets interpreted as harmful. However, the reality is both parties are benefiting from sugar daddy dating, making the term “mutually beneficial relationship” more accurate (and less negative). From the man’s perspective, he has the necessary wealth to maintain a millionaire sugar daddy relationship, and as a result, he does not see the woman as “stealing” from him or his wealth. And from the woman’s perspective, her beauty and sexuality is a hard-earned benefit of years of taking care of herself and her body. It is an investment, and the investment is paying off by earning the trust and love of a sugar daddy.