One day I was asked by my cousin if I had a boyfriend. I told her that I “kinda” have a boyfriend. She looked puzzled by my answer, so I told her that I am into mutually beneficial relationships.

“What is a mutually beneficial relationship?” she asked. I don’t know if she would understand it without being totally judgmental. But I told her anyway, keeping my fingers crossed that she would understand. Luckily she did. And not only did she understand, but now she also wants to have a mutually beneficial relationship herself!

I asked my sugar daddy if he has other sugar daddy friends whom he can introduce my cousin to. So when we went on a double date with my sugar daddy’s friend, things went smoothly. In fact, my cousin and the sugar daddy were inseperable that night. I think they hit it off quite well.

One time, I saw my cousin in front of her computer looking at a sugar daddy website. She told me that we should sign up and get a free profile there. She told me that if our mutually beneficial relationships didn’t work out well, this site would be our fall back. There are a lot of sugar daddies in there looking for sugar babies. And I think there’s no harm in having a fall back so we signed up. A day after creating our profiles, we already got messages from a number of sugar daddies.

It’s quite funny how things turned out. I was afraid my cousin would find out about my sugar daddy relationship and judge me harshly for it. Now, we’re both in mutually beneficial relationships and enjoying them. I asked my cousin again, “what is a mutually beneficial relationship to her?” She proudly answered, “It’s about getting the things that you want.”

I hate our PC culture. I hate the need to make an obviously sketchy thing seem less sketchy than it is. Who cares if the morality of something is questionable? That doesn’t stop people from doing it, and it doesn’t give someone else the right to tell them they can’t do it. If a woman wants to use her sexuality to obtain and maintain a millionaire sugar daddy relationship with a guy old enough to be her grandfather, that’s her decision, not society’s. And if a man wants to go the extra marital sugar daddy dating route, that’s his choice, too. Sure, I’m not interested in cheating on my wife… but that’s my relationship and my decision. I don’t have a right to make his decisions just like I’d be pissed if he made decisions about what’s best for me.

So can we dispense with the “find mutually beneficial relationships online” crap? Can’t they go the Adult Friend Finder route where people are joining specifically to get laid? If you’re out there reading this post and you own a sugar baby website or a sugar daddy website, please stop trying to trick people, because that’s where the real problem is. You don’t want people thinking they’re getting into a “mutually beneficial relationship”… you want your users to know they’re getting into a sugar daddy relationship, plain and simple.

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