Sugar Daddy Dating Online

After separating from someone you’ve spent every day with for 20 years, getting back into the dating game can be hard. I tried to meet people at bars, but clearly I didn’t have the moves I used to, and the girls I was interested in immediately looked away because of my age. I tried dating women my own age, but there was no chemistry. Call me a hypocrite, but wrinkles aren’t sexy. Next, I tried online dating sites, hoping I could win a younger woman over with my personality. It was no use. The dating game simply isn’t for older men.

Then I discovered online Sugar Daddy personals. At first, I admit I was hesitant. I wasn’t sure I was a sugar daddy kind of guy. But when I actually thought about the definition of a sugar daddy, it makes sense. I’ve had 30 or 40 more years to accrue wealth than the women I’m attracted to. The benefit is I have the money. The drawback is I’m older. So why not share the benefit of the money with a woman who is willing to overlook my age?

In the end, Sugar Daddy websites like SugarSugar made sense for the kind of dating I was interested in. While I never thought I’d become a sugar daddy, that’s just the reality of aging and relationships. As I get older, I might lose my looks. But I can make up in wealth what I’ve lost in looks, and the tradeoff is one a lot of women are willing to make.

Let’s not mince words. I’m tired of reading all these “find mutually beneficial relationships online” ads. They’re Sugar Daddy websites, plain and simple. We don’t need ambiguous words clouding what they are. We don’t need to think they’re “mutually beneficial.” They’re places for young, attractive women to use their sexuality to get the favor of wealthy men… and that’s fine!

I hate our PC culture. I hate the need to make an obviously sketchy thing seem less sketchy than it is. Who cares if the morality of something is questionable? That doesn’t stop people from doing it, and it doesn’t give someone else the right to tell them they can’t do it. If a woman wants to use her sexuality to obtain and maintain a millionaire sugar daddy relationship with a guy old enough to be her grandfather, that’s her decision, not society’s. And if a man wants to go the extra marital sugar daddy dating route, that’s his choice, too. Sure, I’m not interested in cheating on my wife… but that’s my relationship and my decision. I don’t have a right to make his decisions just like I’d be pissed if he made decisions about what’s best for me.

So can we dispense with the “find mutually beneficial relationships online” crap? Can’t they go the Adult Friend Finder route where people are joining specifically to get laid? If you’re out there reading this post and you own a sugar baby website or a sugar daddy website, please stop trying to trick people, because that’s where the real problem is. You don’t want people thinking they’re getting into a “mutually beneficial relationship”… you want your users to know they’re getting into a sugar daddy relationship, plain and simple.

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A mutually beneficial relationship is a more politically correct way to describe the relationship between a sugar daddy and a sugar baby. Essentially, it’s a nicer way to say an older, rich guy is financially taking care of a beautiful young girl in exchange for companionship and, often times, sex. But there is an advantage to the phrase “mutually beneficial relationship” – it does a better job of describing how the relationship between a sugar baby and a sugar daddy actually works.

From the outside, a sugar daddy relationship seems scandalous because, often, the woman is seen to be using the man for his money OR the man seems to be using the woman for her sexuality. In that context… it’s rarely seen as both. One person is using the other person, and the relationship gets interpreted as harmful. However, the reality is both parties are benefiting from sugar daddy dating, making the term “mutually beneficial relationship” more accurate (and less negative). From the man’s perspective, he has the necessary wealth to maintain a millionaire sugar daddy relationship, and as a result, he does not see the woman as “stealing” from him or his wealth. And from the woman’s perspective, her beauty and sexuality is a hard-earned benefit of years of taking care of herself and her body. It is an investment, and the investment is paying off by earning the trust and love of a sugar daddy.

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It seems the whole sugar daddy thing has taken on a life of it’s own:

http://www.news.com.au/story/0,27574,26281295-401,00.html

I found it interesting, so I thought I would post.

That’s all for now.

As a Sugar Daddy using online sugar baby personals, it can be surprisingly hard to weed through all the potential sugar babies. Specifically, sugar daddy dating websites tend to be the one place where women seem to far out-number the men, which means we actually get our choice. The benefits are obvious, but since we, as men, are rarely in the position to find younger women to date that we get to hand select from a large group, it can be hard to know exactly what to look for. So here are a few warning signs – red flags, if you will – to look out for as a sort of intro to sugar baby dating online.

1) Beware of the gold digger – Although sugar baby dating is specifically designed to be a mutually beneficial relationship (i.e. you, as the sugar daddy, provide the financial component of the relationship), that doesn’t mean you want to start dating a gold digger. There’s a big difference between a girl who can have fun with you if you don’t mind footing the bill, and a girl who simply wants to divorce you in five years and take half your money.

2) Stay away from “Jenny Drama” – Girls are dramatic. That’s not sexist… it’s an evolutionary thing. They have the hormones for it and what not, and it’s natural. Still, some girls are more dramatic than others. An easy way to tell before you ever meet them is by the number of emails they send. If they start emailing you constantly before you even meet (or soon after), stop responding and move on. You’ll be happy you did.

3) There are plenty of sugary fish in the sea – When you start trying to find a sugar baby online, remember the old saying: “The best thing about 18-year-olds is that while we keep getting older, they stay 18.” If you don’t find the perfect sugar baby right now… don’t worry about it. The ranks of sugar babies are always replenishing. And as a sugar daddy, even as you age, you still get to enjoy the benefits of the youngest members. So don’t settle. Keep fishing until… well… you don’t ever have to stop. There will always be more bites.

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